so my fiance is 26 and so am i. we're looking for an apartment and trying to get our life started.  his father recently passed away of a heart attack at 54 years old.  my fiance is worried about his mother and brother who both live in europe.  He mentioned to me that he'd like to bring them here to live with us and I couldn't help but flip out.  I told him well if he has his mother here to take care of him, then he doesn't need me.  we're okay now but i have no idea what to do or how to fix this.  I don't want them living with me! I feel bad but neither of them are sick or anything, why come here???? ugh, i dunno. help!!!